The World’s 1st

Live-Matched

Singles Events

a Revolutionary Way
to Connect IRL

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The World’s 1st

Live-Matched

Singles Events

a Revolutionary Way
to Connect IRL

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Why Does Finding Connection Feel Impossible?

  • Dating Apps Suck
    Endless swiping, shallow conversations, and mismatched expectations.
  • Speed Dating is Awkward
    A blur of high-pressure interviews that lack real connection.
  • Approaching IRL Is Intimidating
    It’s unpredictable, uncomfortable, and no one likes to be rejected.

But what if real connection didn’t have to be so hard?

Introducing a Revolutionary New Way to Connect IRL

We’ve reimagined singles events to make real connection easy and natural—while having fun.

Our breakthrough method combines:

  • Patented Live-Matching Technology
  • Psychology-Backed Chemistry Boosters
  • Proprietary Games That Spark Connection
  • A Fun and Relaxed Small-Group Atmosphere

What Makes Secret RSVP Different?

  • Live-Matching Technology
    Choose who catches your eye, and our app matches you with connections in real time—no awkward approaches or pressure.

  • The Power of Mystery
    Our secret-matching system uses social psychology to build anticipation, excitement, and real attraction.

  • Play to Connect
    Forget the awkwardness—our fun games spark laughter and help chemistry develop naturally.

  • Relaxed, Engaging Atmosphere
    Our events feel like a fun night out with friends—no pressure, just a chance to make meaningful connections.

Hear from Real Attendees

We’ve hosted thousands of singles, gathering amazing feedback along the way. Watch our video testimonials to see real stories from people who’ve made genuine connections at our events!

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How It Works

1

Choose Secretly

At the event, use your phone to discreetly select who catches your eye.

2

Connect and Play

Our app matches you in real time with those you’re interested in.

3

Discover Connections

Break the ice with fun, proprietary games that spark laughter, connection, and genuine conversation.

Choose Secretly
1

Choose Secretly

  • Your Choice, Your Secret
    Feel confident selecting who you’d like to meet without any pressure.
  • Medium to large-scale events
    Meet many interesting singles in just one evening.
2

Get Matched

  • Live Secret Matching
    During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups.
  • Dynamic Rounds
    Each round introduces you to new groups and fresh connections.
3

Play & Connect

  • Genuine Chemistry
    Play and engage in activities that help you discover real chemistry.
  • Authentic Connections
    Enjoy a relaxed and fun setting, all while keeping your interests confidential.

The Impact of Our Events

After hosting over 2,000 singles, we’ve learned a few things:

95%
Engagement During Events

Attendees actively connect and update their guest lists throughout the night.

89%
Continued Conversations

Most participants stay engaged after the event, sparking ongoing connections.

Memorable Fun

Many events extend beyond their official end times, often leading to spontaneous after-parties.

Partner Cities

Charlotte, NC
The event went great and everyone had so much fun! I got some great feedback!
Amanda Rose
Dating Boutique Inc.
Washington, DC
Secret RSVP™ was an amazing value add to our daters experience. The games were a brilliant way for daters to shake nervous jitters. Secret RSVP™ is exactly what dating deserves!
Maliaka Mealy
DC / United Fray Events Producer
Calgary, AB
Secret RSVP™ is a fantastic way to help break the ice for any medium-large scale social event. Technology, in the right hands, can be used to bring people together and help form relationships in real life, and this concept absolutely does this.
Cory Harasym
Small Group Pastor
become a partner

Use your phone at the event

Add Guest

Add someone at the event to your Secret Guest list
This is used by the live-matching algorithm

Guestlist

See all the attendees you’ve added

Invites

During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups

Send Message

Send a message to someone from the event
NOTE: You can only send messages shortly after the event ends

Patented Technology

Our innovative technology is protected under patent, ensuring a unique and unparalleled experience at every event.

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