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New York Singles Events

Experience a fun, relaxed, and modern way to meet singles in New York


Choose Secretly

At the event, use your phone to discreetly select whom you’re interested in meeting.


Connect and Play

Get matched with others and enjoy engaging games in a relaxed, intimate setting with small groups.


Discover Chemistry

Explore and discover new friendships or romantic relationships.


our New York Launch Event is Coming Soon!

Live-Matched Games Night!

  • Fall 2024
  • 7pm (Check-In)
  • TBD
  • TBD
  • Ages: 25 – 43

How Events Work

Watch our quick video to see how our live-matched events help women and men find their perfect match. Understand the process, get a glimpse of what to expect, and learn why our events are a favorite among singles looking for meaningful connections.

Choose Secretly

At the event, use your phone to discreetly select whom you’re interested in meeting.

  • Choose Anonymously
    No one will know you’re interested.
  • Many Singles
    Our medium to large-scale events offer you the chance to meet a wide variety of singles in just one evening.

Connect and Play

Get matched with others and enjoy engaging games in a relaxed, intimate setting with small groups.

  • Live Secret Matching
    Get matched in real-time with people you’re secretly connected with.
  • Interactive Gameplay
    Engage in fun and interactive games in a relaxed setting with small, intimate groups.
  • Dynamic Rounds
    Each round introduces you to new groups and fresh connections, making the experience exciting and unpredictable.

“You Can Discover More About a Person in an Hour of Play than in a Year of Conversation” — Plato

Discover Chemistry

Explore and discover new friendships and romantic relationships.

  • Make New Connections
    Our events are designed to help you forge meaningful relationships, whether you’re interested in friendship or romance.
  • Harness the Power of Mystery
    The proven psychological elements of mystery captures attention and enhances attraction, making social interactions more engaging and memorable.
  • Experience Authenticity
    Engage in activities that encourage genuine interactions, helping you discover real chemistry beyond the screen.

What Attendees Say

Over the years we’ve listened to the great feedback from our singles and have continued to improve the Secret RSVP™ experience into what it is today!

The Impact of Our Events

After hosting over 1000s of singles we have learned a few things:

App Engagement
During Events

Attendees frequently update their guest lists as they connect or spot interesting people, making for a truly dynamic and interactive experience.


Attendees remain engaged post-event, continuing conversations based on shared experiences and talking points from the night.

Events Often Extend Into Overtime

Our hosts may be weary, but it signals a successful night! Spontaneous after-parties often form, extending the fun.

Event App

Add Guest

Add someone at the event to your Secret Guest list
This is used by the live-matching algorithm

Secret Guest list

See all the attendees you’ve added

SRSVP (Secret Invites)

During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups

Send Message

Send a message to someone from the event
NOTE: You can only send messages shortly after the event ends

Patented Technology

Our innovative technology is protected under patent, ensuring a unique and unparalleled experience at every event.

Secret RSVP Partners

In the media

Upcoming Events

Join our Club List now and be the first to know when tickets go on sale

new York Launch Event!

Secret RSVP™ is thrilled to announce our grand launch event in the heart of New York City this fall! This exclusive event will bring together singles from across the city for an unforgettable evening of genuine connections and live matchmaking.

  • Fall 2024
  • 7pm (Check-In)
  • TBD
  • TBD
  • Ages: 25 – 43

Ticket FAQ

What’s included?
Live-matching experience (one-of-a-kind)
Fun games
Post-event messaging

What’s NOT included?
Your fully-charged smartphone which you will use to view and add your guests.
A cash or credit bar is available for drinks which we encourage using to support the venue hosting us (drinks not included).

What’s the average size of a Secret RSVP™ event?
Secret RSVP™ events are fully-hosted, medium to large-scale events. We normally attract between 40 to 60+ singles per event, with close to equal gender ratio.

When can I see the profiles of other guests going to the event?
You can only view the profiles of event attendees once you are checked-in by our event host at the event. This also keeps your profile private and visible only to those committed to attending the event.

How does messaging work with the event app?
After the event ends, messaging will be unlocked in the app (30 – 60 minutes after) so you can start sending messages to those you met at the event and continue the social experience.

What should I bring to the event?
Your lovely self and personal fully-charged smartphone!

What’s the dress code?
Smart casual always works!

More questions? Read our Events FAQ at the bottom of the page.

Do You Accept Walk-Ins?
To ensure a balanced gender ratio and a smooth check-in experience, we don’t accept walk-ins at the door. Our events often sell out early but if any tickets are still available on the day of the event, sales will close well before the event starts.

Booking Confirmation
You will receive an email confirmation shortly after booking your tickets. If you cannot find the message in your inbox, please check your spam folder or contact us for assistance (do not make a second booking). Please review your booking carefully before checking out.

The Experience
This is an indoor experience which will take place in either a secret or revealed venue location.

Ticket Types
All tickets are issued as Standard entries and include a general admission to the experience. When tickets sell out, a waitlist will be opened.

All sales are final. See full terms and conditions.

New York Hosts


“Shoutout to the singles ready to mingle(yes pluralizing for rhymes is cool)! Brett is here to make you feel at ease and guide you through a fun night of games and getting to know one another.

Together we’ll create a stress-free, fun, and connected environment. Brett may sound familiar with a variety of radio and commercial voiceover work, but don’t try changing the station on your event night…. you’ll be stuck with her until the bitter end, which will come quicker than you’d expect with all the new friends you’ll be making and fun you’ll be having. 

New York Venues

New York Singles Events FAQ

Our events are unique in every city we host in. If your question isn’t answered here, visit our event support FAQ page.

The City that never sleeps – New York City is a vibrant, bustling metropolis known for its fast-paced lifestyle, diverse population, and endless opportunities for social interaction. Whether you’re a local or new to the city, NYC offers a unique blend of cultures, cuisines, and experiences that make it an exciting place to meet new people. With countless bars, restaurants, parks, and cultural events, singles have a multitude of venues to explore and connect with others. The city’s energy and diversity ensure that there’s something for everyone, making it a fantastic place to find romantic, friendship, or networking connections.

Our NYC singles events offer you a fresh and engaging way to meet potential connections. With our award-winning live-matching technology, you’ll be invited to smaller groups with those you secretly indicate on our app that you’re curious about, as well as those interested in you. Imagine attending an event that feels more like a fun night out with friends, where you can relax, play interactive games, and enjoy natural conversations. The live-matching aspect ensures that attendees are brought together with those they have a genuine connection with, making each event unique and personalized. While you’re at it, your secret interests are safe with us!

Our events are hosted in some of the most exciting and accessible neighborhoods in NYC, providing you with stylish and welcoming environments to meet new people. From chic rooftop bars with stunning views of the city skyline to cozy lounges in vibrant neighborhoods like Midtown, Soho, and the East Village, each location is chosen to enhance your social experience. You’ll find it easy to relax, have fun, and make meaningful connections in these vibrant settings.

While we do not host traditional speed dating events, our NYC singles events offer a modern and engaging alternative. Picture group speed dating where you get to choose whom you’re curious about, all while having fun discovering more about one another through interactive games. We create a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere where you can interact naturally, eliminating the high-pressure environment of typical speed dating and mixers. This allows for more authentic and enjoyable connections. Come away with new friends, an amazing night out, and possibly, romantic connections!

Learn more about how our events are a modern alternative to traditional speed dating.

Our events are organized by different age groups to ensure you meet others at a similar life stage. While age is just a number, we typically host events for those between 25 to 43, with a 1-2 year leeway. Check our events page to find the right event for you, ensuring you connect with people who share similar interests and experiences. If you’re outside this age range, please let us know your interest by joining our club list for future events in your age group.

We are always innovating to make our events more exciting and enjoyable for you. Our themed but inclusive events offer something for everyone, with games designed to maximize interaction and build camaraderie. You’ll get to showcase your unique personality while connecting with others in fun and engaging ways. Keep an eye on our website and social media for the latest event offerings and exclusive surprises that will make each event an unforgettable experience.

Secret RSVP™ has been featured in several news outlets and online publications, highlighting our innovative concept and positive attendee experiences. Check out our media page to see how we’ve garnered media attention and why our events are the talk of the town. Discover why Secret RSVP™ is the go-to choice for singles looking for authentic and enjoyable connections.

Get Invited Now!

Interested in attending our next event? Add yourself to our Club List and get…

  • Exclusive Invites
  • Special Ticket Offers
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