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New York Singles Events

a Revolutionary Way
to Connect IRL

  
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The World’s 1st

Live-Matched

New York Singles Events

a Revolutionary Way
to Connect IRL

  
Get Tickets
Or Scroll Down

Why Does Finding Connection Feel Impossible?

  • Dating Apps Suck
    Endless swiping, shallow conversations, and mismatched expectations.
  • Speed Dating is Awkward
    A blur of high-pressure interviews that lack real connection.
  • Approaching IRL Is Intimidating
    It’s unpredictable, uncomfortable, and no one likes to be rejected.

But what if real connection didn’t have to be so hard?

Introducing a Revolutionary New Way to Connect IRL

We’ve reimagined singles events to make real connection easy and natural—while having fun.

Our breakthrough method combines:

  • Patented Live-Matching Technology
  • Psychology-Backed Chemistry Boosters
  • Proprietary Games That Spark Connection
  • A Fun and Relaxed Small-Group Atmosphere

What Makes Secret RSVP Different?

  • Live-Matching Technology
    Choose who catches your eye, and our app matches you with connections in real time—no awkward approaches or pressure.

  • The Power of Mystery
    Our secret-matching system uses social psychology to build anticipation, excitement, and real attraction.

  • Play to Connect
    Forget the awkwardness—our fun games spark laughter and help chemistry develop naturally.

  • Relaxed, Engaging Atmosphere
    Our events feel like a fun night out with friends—no pressure, just a chance to make meaningful connections.

Hear from Real Attendees

We’ve hosted thousands of singles, gathering amazing feedback along the way. Watch our video testimonials to see real stories from people who’ve made genuine connections at our events!

WATCH VIDEO INTERVIEWS

How It Works

1

Choose Secretly

At the event, use your phone to discreetly select who catches your eye.

2

Connect and Play

Our app matches you in real time with those you’re interested in.

3

Discover Connections

Break the ice with fun, proprietary games that spark laughter, connection, and genuine conversation.

Choose Secretly
1

Choose Secretly

  • Your Choice, Your Secret
    Feel confident selecting who you’d like to meet without any pressure.
  • Medium to large-scale events
    Meet many interesting singles in just one evening.
2

Get Matched

  • Live Secret Matching
    During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups.
  • Dynamic Rounds
    Each round introduces you to new groups and fresh connections.
3

Play & Connect

  • Genuine Chemistry
    Play and engage in activities that help you discover real chemistry.
  • Authentic Connections
    Enjoy a relaxed and fun setting, all while keeping your interests confidential.

The Impact of Our Events

After hosting over 2,000 singles, we’ve learned a few things:

95%
Engagement During Events

Attendees actively connect and update their guest lists throughout the night.

89%
Continued Conversations

Most participants stay engaged after the event, sparking ongoing connections.

Memorable Fun

Many events extend beyond their official end times, often leading to spontaneous after-parties.

Partner Cities

Charlotte, NC
The event went great and everyone had so much fun! I got some great feedback!
Amanda Rose
Dating Boutique Inc.
Washington, DC
Secret RSVP™ was an amazing value add to our daters experience. The games were a brilliant way for daters to shake nervous jitters. Secret RSVP™ is exactly what dating deserves!
Maliaka Mealy
DC / United Fray Events Producer
Calgary, AB
Secret RSVP™ is a fantastic way to help break the ice for any medium-large scale social event. Technology, in the right hands, can be used to bring people together and help form relationships in real life, and this concept absolutely does this.
Cory Harasym
Small Group Pastor
become a partner

Use your phone at the event

Add Guest

Add someone at the event to your Secret Guest list
This is used by the live-matching algorithm

Guestlist

See all the attendees you’ve added

Invites

During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups

Send Message

Send a message to someone from the event
NOTE: You can only send messages shortly after the event ends

Patented Technology

Our innovative technology is protected under patent, ensuring a unique and unparalleled experience at every event.

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  • Date: Apr 4th, 2025
  • Time: 7:00 PM (Check-In)
  • Venue: St. Pat’s Bar & Grill NYC
  • Address: 22 W 46th St, New York, NY
  • Google Map: Get Directions
  • Ages: 28 – 45
  • Attire: Smart Casual

Solo-Friendly Environment
Over 80% of our guests attend solo, so you’ll feel welcome from the moment you arrive. Interactive games make it easy to mingle and connect effortlessly.

Innovative Live-Matching Technology
Our patented app discreetly matches you with like-minded singles in real time—no pressure, just instant connections.

Fun and Engaging Atmosphere
Break the ice with fun, interactive games that spark laughter and genuine conversations in a relaxed setting.

Intimate and Safe Settings
Small, matched groups create a comfortable space for meaningful interactions, with privacy and safety as top priorities.

Fully Hosted Experience
Our professional hosts guide the evening, ensuring everything flows smoothly and you feel right at home.

Expand Your Social Circle
Meet 40–60 professional singles in one evening and build connections—whether for romance or friendship.

Promote Mental Wellbeing
Enjoy uplifting, stress-free interactions that make meeting new people fun and rewarding.

Event Theme: Retro Music

Enjoy disco, rock ‘n’ roll, or throwback pop hits, all while exploring endless connections and meeting potential BFFs (and possibly your soulmate?) through interactive games and spontaneous connections.

What Makes Our Games Special?

  • Exclusive Designs: Our proprietary “Spark Sessions” are uniquely crafted and thoroughly tested to create natural, meaningful interactions.
  • Three Dynamic Rounds: Each round introduces new games and fresh group dynamics, keeping the night exciting and unpredictable.
  • Easy and Inclusive: Designed for all personality types, these activities ensure everyone feels included and relaxed.
  • Designed for Connection: Thoughtfully built to help you laugh, collaborate, and form authentic bonds.

What to Expect

  • Interactive Spark Sessions: Unique games that spark conversation and help you connect effortlessly.
  • Group Challenges: Engaging team activities that foster laughter and bonding.
  • Surprise Elements: Unexpected twists and unique gameplay keep every round exciting.
  • Memorable Interactions: A structured yet relaxed format that creates genuine connections without awkwardness.

Why You’ll Love It

  • Innovative Gameplay: Enjoy an evening of activities you won’t find anywhere else.
  • Fun and Relaxation: These sessions make meeting new people easy, engaging, and pressure-free.
  • Dynamic Energy: With new games each round, the night stays fresh, exciting, and full of possibilities.
  • Positive Vibes: Leave feeling uplifted and energized by meaningful social interactions.

Live-Matching Experience

Experience our patented, one-of-a-kind adventure designed exclusively for you. Our innovative live-matching technology ensures you connect with like-minded singles in real-time, making each interaction unique and meaningful.

Fun & Games

Get ready for hand-picked, proprietary games crafted for maximum fun and authentic connections. Our interactive activities break the ice and foster genuine conversations, ensuring you have an enjoyable and memorable evening.

Post-Event Messaging

The excitement doesn’t end when the event does! Our messaging platform remains active for 3 days, giving you ample time to continue conversations and build connections with new friends or potential partners.

Prizes

Bring your creativity and stand a chance to win exciting prizes. It’s a fun way to add an extra layer of excitement to your night!

Fully Hosted Experience

Enjoy a fully hosted event where our professional hosts guide you through the evening. From facilitating introductions to managing games, our hosts ensure a seamless and enjoyable experience for everyone.

What to Bring

Fully-Charged Smartphone

Use it to:

  • Check In: Easily register and navigate the event.
  • Choose Secretly: Select your matches discreetly through our app.
  • Receive Invitations: Get group/table invites seamlessly.
  • Stay Connected: Engage with other guests post-event via our chat feature.

A Thirst for Adventure

Bring your favorite drinks from the bar and prepare for a night filled with excitement, laughter, and meaningful interactions.

1. What’s the average size of a Secret RSVP event?
Secret RSVP events are fully-hosted, medium to large-scale gatherings. We typically attract between 40 to 60+ singles per event, maintaining a balanced gender ratio. This size ensures a vibrant atmosphere while allowing for meaningful interactions.

2. When can I see the profiles of other guests attending the event?
You can view the profiles of other attendees only after you’ve checked in with our event host at the event. This approach keeps your profile private and visible exclusively to those who are committed to attending, ensuring a secure and respectful environment.

3. How does messaging work with the event app?
After the event concludes, our messaging feature unlocks within 30 to 60 minutes. This allows you to start sending messages to those you met during the event and continue building connections seamlessly.

4. What should I bring to the event?
Bring your lovely self and a fully-charged smartphone! Your phone is essential for:

  • Check-In: Easily register and navigate the event.
  • Secret Selection: Choose your matches discreetly through our app.
  • Group Invitations: Receive your group/table invitations seamlessly.
  • Post-Event Messaging: Stay connected with other guests after the event via our chat feature.

5. What’s the dress code?
Smart casual is always a great choice! Opting for a polished, everyday look, and you’ll fit right in and feel comfortable throughout the evening.

1. Do You Accept Walk-Ins?
To maintain a balanced gender ratio and ensure a smooth check-in experience, we do not accept walk-ins at the door. Our events typically sell out quickly, but if any tickets remain on the day of the event, sales will close well before the start time. We encourage you to book in advance to secure your spot.

2. Booking Confirmation
After completing your ticket purchase, you will receive an email confirmation shortly. If you don’t see the confirmation in your inbox, please check your spam or junk folder. If you still cannot locate it, feel free to contact our support team for assistance. Please avoid making a second booking to prevent duplicates. Ensure you review your booking details carefully before finalizing your purchase.

3. The Experience
Our events are designed to provide a memorable indoor experience, held at either a secret or revealed venue location. Each event is fully-hosted, ensuring that everything runs smoothly and you can focus on enjoying the evening and making meaningful connections.

4. Ticket Types
All tickets are issued as Standard entries, granting you general admission to the event. Once tickets sell out, a waitlist will be opened to accommodate additional attendees.

Please note that all sales are final, and we encourage you to review our full terms and conditions before purchasing.

Experience a fun, relaxed, and modern way to meet singles in New York

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New York Hosts

Samantha

It’s ya fav matchmaker with a heart full of laughs and a knack for making connections! I’m here to keep the energy high, the smiles wide, and the sparks flying during every round of speed dating. Whether it’s a wink, a joke, or a clever icebreaker, I’m all about creating the perfect vibe for those quick, but memorable first impressions. Let’s make love at first sight (or at least a lot of fun)!

Bank and Barron
Barcelona Tavern

New York Venues

Secret RSVP™ is proud to host our exclusive live-matched singles events at some of New York City’s most stylish and sophisticated venues. Our carefully selected locations in vibrant neighborhoods such as Manhattan, Brooklyn, and the Lower East Side provide the perfect ambiance for meeting new people and enjoying memorable evenings.

In Manhattan, we host events at trendy rooftop bars in the Meatpacking District, offering breathtaking views of the city skyline. The chic lounges in SoHo are known for their elegant decor and intimate atmosphere, creating the ideal setting for meaningful connections.

Over in Brooklyn, our events take place in hip and artsy venues in Williamsburg, known for its unique charm and lively nightlife. Whether you prefer the bustling energy of Manhattan or the cool, laid-back vibe of Brooklyn, our venues cater to every taste and style.

New York Singles Events FAQ

Our events are unique in every city we host in. If your question isn’t answered here, visit our event support FAQ page.

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The City that never sleeps – New York City is a vibrant, bustling metropolis known for its fast-paced lifestyle, diverse population, and endless opportunities for social interaction. Whether you’re a local or new to the city, NYC offers a unique blend of cultures, cuisines, and experiences that make it an exciting place to meet new people. With countless bars, restaurants, parks, and cultural events, singles have a multitude of venues to explore and connect with others. The city’s energy and diversity ensure that there’s something for everyone, making it a fantastic place to find romantic, friendship, or networking connections.

Our NYC singles events offer you a fresh and engaging way to meet potential connections. With our award-winning live-matching technology, you’ll be invited to smaller groups with those you secretly indicate on our app that you’re curious about, as well as those interested in you. Imagine attending an event that feels more like a fun night out with friends, where you can relax, play interactive games, and enjoy natural conversations. The live-matching aspect ensures that attendees are brought together with those they have a genuine connection with, making each event unique and personalized. While you’re at it, your secret interests are safe with us!

Our events are hosted in some of the most exciting and accessible neighborhoods in NYC, providing you with stylish and welcoming environments to meet new people. From chic rooftop bars with stunning views of the city skyline to cozy lounges in vibrant neighborhoods like Midtown, Soho, and the East Village, each location is chosen to enhance your social experience. You’ll find it easy to relax, have fun, and make meaningful connections in these vibrant settings.

While we do not host traditional speed dating events, our NYC singles events offer a modern and engaging alternative. Picture group speed dating where you get to choose whom you’re curious about, all while having fun discovering more about one another through interactive games. We create a relaxed and enjoyable atmosphere where you can interact naturally, eliminating the high-pressure environment of typical speed dating and mixers. This allows for more authentic and enjoyable connections. Come away with new friends, an amazing night out, and possibly, romantic connections!

Learn more about how our events are a modern alternative to traditional speed dating.

Our events are organized by different age groups to ensure you meet others at a similar life stage. While age is just a number, we typically host events for those between 25 to 43, with a 1-2 year leeway. Check our events page to find the right event for you, ensuring you connect with people who share similar interests and experiences. If you’re outside this age range, please let us know your interest by joining our club list for future events in your age group.

We are always innovating to make our events more exciting and enjoyable for you. Our themed but inclusive events offer something for everyone, with games designed to maximize interaction and build camaraderie. You’ll get to showcase your unique personality while connecting with others in fun and engaging ways. Keep an eye on our website and social media for the latest event offerings and exclusive surprises that will make each event an unforgettable experience.

Secret RSVP™ has been featured in several news outlets and online publications, highlighting our innovative concept and positive attendee experiences. Check out our media page to see how we’ve garnered media attention and why our events are the talk of the town. Discover why Secret RSVP™ is the go-to choice for singles looking for authentic and enjoyable connections.

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