About Secret RSVP
Since 2012, Secret RSVP has helped thousands of singles skip the swipe fatigue and meet face-to-face—without the awkwardness.
Our events blend patented live-matching, small-group games, and friendly hosts so you can relax, have fun, and actually meet people.
We operate across Canada and into the U.S., balancing guest lists and guiding every round so the night flows naturally. Ready to connect IRL?
Our Mission — Make Real-Life Connection Easy (and Fun)
Connection isn’t built in an inbox. It happens in the room—through energy, pacing, and presence. Our mission is to design hosted experiences where people feel safe, seen, and curious enough to spark real chemistry.
What Makes Secret RSVP Different
Patented live-matching.
You choose privately, we seat you in small, compatible groups—in real time.
Hosted & low-pressure.
No cold approaches. Our hosts guide the night so you can be yourself.
Game-driven conversation.
Light, social-psychology-informed games that make meeting people natural.
Balanced guest lists.
We work hard to keep ratios close and vibes friendly.
Great venues.
Public, quality spots with space for mingling and play.
Post-event chat (limited window).
Keep the momentum going after the event—while it’s still exciting.
Live-Matching Technology
Our live-matching technology is a big part of our unique event experience. It’s the secret behind how we create mystery and spontaneous connections.
Chemistry
Chemistry only happens in real life. The Secret RSVP™ app allows you to discover chemistry without anyone knowing you are interested.
Social Psychology
Secret RSVP™ games are specially designed to build authentic connections and team camaraderie, increasing interpersonal attraction.
Power of Mystery
Who’s interested in whom?
The element of mystery in all Secret RSVP™ events increases excitement and attraction.
Where We Host Events
We run events across Canada—Calgary, Edmonton, Vancouver, Toronto, Ottawa, Montreal—and we’re expanding in the United States (Austin, Boston, Charlotte, Chicago, Dallas, Denver, Houston, Los Angeles, Miami, New York, Phoenix) and beyond.
Partners & Press
We love great partners—venues, service providers, and brands that elevate the IRL experience.
Contact & Support
Questions about tickets, ages, or how the night runs?
Get Ready To Party-cipate
Choose. Live-Match. Play. If you’re done with the apps and ready for real, we’d love to host you.