World’s 1st
Live-Matched
New York Singles Events
a Revolutionary Way
to Connect IRL
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Why Does Finding Connection Feel Impossible?
We get it—it’s Hard. But what if there was a better way?
Experience A Revolutionary Way to Connect IRL
Our breakthrough method combines:
What Makes Secret RSVP Different?
How It Works
1
Choose Secretly
At the event, use your phone to discreetly select who catches your eye.
2
Connect and Play
Our app matches you in real time with those you’re interested in.
3
Discover Connections
Break the ice with fun, proprietary games that spark laughter, connection, and genuine conversation.
Choose Secretly
Get Matched
Play & Connect
The Impact of Our Events
After hosting over 2,000 singles, we’ve learned a few things:
Engagement During Events
Attendees actively connect and update their guest lists throughout the night.
Continued Conversations
Most participants stay engaged after the event, sparking ongoing connections.
Memorable Fun
Many events extend beyond their official end times, often leading to spontaneous after-parties.
What Attendees Say
Over the years we’ve listened to the great feedback from our singles and have continued to improve the Secret RSVP™ experience into what it is today!
Partner Cities
Use your phone at the event
Add Guest
Add someone at the event to your Secret Guest list
This is used by the live-matching algorithm
Guestlist
See all the attendees you’ve added
Invites
During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups
Send Message
Send a message to someone from the event
NOTE: You can only send messages shortly after the event ends
Patented Technology
Our innovative technology is protected under patent, ensuring a unique and unparalleled experience at every event.
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Solo-Friendly Environment
Over 80% of our guests attend solo, so you’ll feel welcome from the moment you arrive. Interactive games make it easy to mingle and connect effortlessly.
Innovative Live-Matching Technology
Our patented app discreetly matches you with like-minded singles in real time—no pressure, just instant connections.
Fun and Engaging Atmosphere
Break the ice with fun, interactive games that spark laughter and genuine conversations in a relaxed setting.
Intimate and Safe Settings
Small, matched groups create a comfortable space for meaningful interactions, with privacy and safety as top priorities.
Fully Hosted Experience
Our professional hosts guide the evening, ensuring everything flows smoothly and you feel right at home.
Expand Your Social Circle
Meet 40–60 professional singles in one evening and build connections—whether for romance or friendship.
Promote Mental Wellbeing
Enjoy uplifting, stress-free interactions that make meeting new people fun and rewarding.
Event Theme: Launch Edition
Join us for our very first Live-Matched Games Night launch! Meet professional singles through a curated selection of fun and engaging activities, all set in a fun and interactive atmosphere.
What Makes Our Games Special?
- Exclusive Designs: Our proprietary “Spark Sessions” are uniquely crafted and thoroughly tested to create natural, meaningful interactions.
- Three Dynamic Rounds: Each round introduces new games and fresh group dynamics, keeping the night exciting and unpredictable.
- Easy and Inclusive: Designed for all personality types, these activities ensure everyone feels included and relaxed.
- Designed for Connection: Thoughtfully built to help you laugh, collaborate, and form authentic bonds.
What to Expect
- Interactive Spark Sessions: Unique games that spark conversation and help you connect effortlessly.
- Group Challenges: Engaging team activities that foster laughter and bonding.
- Surprise Elements: Unexpected twists and unique gameplay keep every round exciting.
- Memorable Interactions: A structured yet relaxed format that creates genuine connections without awkwardness.
Why You’ll Love It
- Innovative Gameplay: Enjoy an evening of activities you won’t find anywhere else.
- Fun and Relaxation: These sessions make meeting new people easy, engaging, and pressure-free.
- Dynamic Energy: With new games each round, the night stays fresh, exciting, and full of possibilities.
- Positive Vibes: Leave feeling uplifted and energized by meaningful social interactions.
Live-Matching Experience
Experience our patented, one-of-a-kind adventure designed exclusively for you. Our innovative live-matching technology ensures you connect with like-minded singles in real-time, making each interaction unique and meaningful.
Fun & Games
Get ready for hand-picked, proprietary games crafted for maximum fun and authentic connections. Our interactive activities break the ice and foster genuine conversations, ensuring you have an enjoyable and memorable evening.
Post-Event Messaging
The excitement doesn’t end when the event does! Our messaging platform remains active for 3 days, giving you ample time to continue conversations and build connections with new friends or potential partners.
Prizes
Bring your creativity and stand a chance to win exciting prizes. It’s a fun way to add an extra layer of excitement to your night!
Fully Hosted Experience
Enjoy a fully hosted event where our professional hosts guide you through the evening. From facilitating introductions to managing games, our hosts ensure a seamless and enjoyable experience for everyone.
What to Bring
Fully-Charged Smartphone
Use it to:
- Check In: Easily register and navigate the event.
- Choose Secretly: Select your matches discreetly through our app.
- Receive Invitations: Get group/table invites seamlessly.
- Stay Connected: Engage with other guests post-event via our chat feature.
A Thirst for Adventure
Bring your favorite drinks from the bar and prepare for a night filled with excitement, laughter, and meaningful interactions.
1. What’s the average size of a Secret RSVP event?
Secret RSVP events are fully-hosted, medium to large-scale gatherings. We typically attract between 40 to 60+ singles per event, maintaining a balanced gender ratio. This size ensures a vibrant atmosphere while allowing for meaningful interactions.
2. When can I see the profiles of other guests attending the event?
You can view the profiles of other attendees only after you’ve checked in with our event host at the event. This approach keeps your profile private and visible exclusively to those who are committed to attending, ensuring a secure and respectful environment.
3. How does messaging work with the event app?
After the event concludes, our messaging feature unlocks within 30 to 60 minutes. This allows you to start sending messages to those you met during the event and continue building connections seamlessly.
4. What should I bring to the event?
Bring your lovely self and a fully-charged smartphone! Your phone is essential for:
- Check-In: Easily register and navigate the event.
- Secret Selection: Choose your matches discreetly through our app.
- Group Invitations: Receive your group/table invitations seamlessly.
- Post-Event Messaging: Stay connected with other guests after the event via our chat feature.
5. What’s the dress code?
Smart casual is always a great choice! Opting for a polished, everyday look, and you’ll fit right in and feel comfortable throughout the evening.
1. Do You Accept Walk-Ins?
To maintain a balanced gender ratio and ensure a smooth check-in experience, we do not accept walk-ins at the door. Our events typically sell out quickly, but if any tickets remain on the day of the event, sales will close well before the start time. We encourage you to book in advance to secure your spot.
2. Booking Confirmation
After completing your ticket purchase, you will receive an email confirmation shortly. If you don’t see the confirmation in your inbox, please check your spam or junk folder. If you still cannot locate it, feel free to contact our support team for assistance. Please avoid making a second booking to prevent duplicates. Ensure you review your booking details carefully before finalizing your purchase.
3. The Experience
Our events are designed to provide a memorable indoor experience, held at either a secret or revealed venue location. Each event is fully-hosted, ensuring that everything runs smoothly and you can focus on enjoying the evening and making meaningful connections.
4. Ticket Types
All tickets are issued as Standard entries, granting you general admission to the event. Once tickets sell out, a waitlist will be opened to accommodate additional attendees.
Please note that all sales are final, and we encourage you to review our full terms and conditions before purchasing.
Experience a fun, relaxed, and modern way to meet singles in New York
New York Hosts
BRETT
“Shoutout to the singles ready to mingles (yes pluralizing for rhymes is cool)! Brett is here to make you feel at ease and guide you through a fun night of games and getting to know one another.
Together we’ll create a stress-free, fun, and connected environment. Brett may sound familiar with a variety of radio and commercial voiceover work, but don’t try changing the station on your event night…. you’ll be stuck with her until the bitter end, which will come quicker than you’d expect with all the new friends you’ll be making and fun you’ll be having.
New York Venues
Secret RSVP™ is proud to host our exclusive live-matched singles events at some of New York City’s most stylish and sophisticated venues. Our carefully selected locations in vibrant neighborhoods such as Manhattan, Brooklyn, and the Lower East Side provide the perfect ambiance for meeting new people and enjoying memorable evenings.
In Manhattan, we host events at trendy rooftop bars in the Meatpacking District, offering breathtaking views of the city skyline. The chic lounges in SoHo are known for their elegant decor and intimate atmosphere, creating the ideal setting for meaningful connections.
Over in Brooklyn, our events take place in hip and artsy venues in Williamsburg, known for its unique charm and lively nightlife. Whether you prefer the bustling energy of Manhattan or the cool, laid-back vibe of Brooklyn, our venues cater to every taste and style.
New York Singles Events FAQ
Our events are unique in every city we host in. If your question isn’t answered here, visit our event support FAQ page.
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