OTTAWA Singles Events
World’s 1st Live-Matched Game Nights
Choose privately. No awkward intros.
A patented singles game night with real-time matching—the modern alternative to speed dating
Not speed dating. Not a mixer.
This is a live-matching game night—use your phone to privately tap profiles of people you want to meet. Discreet invites seat you in small, rotating mystery groups, then the games begin.
Small groups. Hosted games. Real connections.
Feels like a great night out—not some awkward dating event.
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A Smarter, More Human Way to Meet IRL
How Secret RSVP works
1
Choose Privately
At check-in, browse profiles and tap your picks. Your choices stay private—no cold approaches, no pressure.

2
Get Matched, Then Play
Based on your private picks, you’re seated into a small, rotating group each round. Discreet phone invites guide you; hosts run the games.

3
Discover Connections
Laugh. Connect. Repeat. Each round is designed to spark natural conversation, connection, and maybe something more.

Post-Event · 3-Day Private Chat
When the last round ends, a private chat opens for 72 hours so you can follow up and swap info at your pace.
Hear It From Guests
We’ve hosted thousands of singles. Some arrived unsure—and left surprised.
Watch why guests say the night felt easy, human, and actually fun.
What Women Loved
Comfort · No cold approaches · Real chemistry
What Men Discovered
Easy conversations · Breaks the ice fast · Better than speed dating
Results at a Glance
After hosting thousands of singles, clear patterns show up—more than just “it went well”
Active during the night
Most guests actively updating their private pick list—the selections that seat your small groups each round.
Keep Talking After
Most continue the conversation in the 3-day private chat or swap contact info after the event.
And the Fun Doesn’t Stop
Many events turn into spontaneous after-parties. When the format works, people want more.
Active = checked-in guests who added to their private list during event. Non-adders typically include late arrivals, people who preferred to be seated without picking, didn’t see a fit, or weren’t aware of picks. Based on random past events. Keep talking = sent/received a message in the 3-day chat or reported exchanging contact info post-event (survey).
Trusted by Partners Across North America
Event pros, social curators, and community leaders trust Secret RSVP because it breaks the ice fast and helps guests connect.
How Your Phone Helps You Connect
Use it during and after the event.

Add Guest
Tap to quietly add someone to your Secret Guest list—your private picks seat you each round.
Guestlist
See everyone you’ve added during the night—one private view.
Invites
You’ll get discreet invites that seat you in small, rotating groups—no cold approaches.
Send Message
After the event, a 3-day private chat opens so you can follow up at your pace.

Patented Technology
Our matching system is patented and built for in-the-moment discovery—no swiping, no guesswork, no cold intros.
Meet Your Ottawa Hosts
Real people run the night. Our hosts are trained in Secret RSVP’s live-matching system, so you never have to cold-approach or figure things out alone.
Ottawa Venues
Ottawa’s amazing restaurants, bars and pubs are the perfect venues for Secret RSVP™ events. We are picky with where we host our events because we strive for venues with the right balance of having a soiree experience and being able to actually enjoy conversations, while keeping things fun, relaxed and classy. (You have to hear someone to get to know someone!)
At times, we may not reveal our event venues on the event page openly. Only event ticket holders will have access to such exclusive information when their tickets are confirmed upon purchase. This is to prevent people from *crashing* our parties (yes – it has happened before because tickets are limited, and it allows us to maintain an even gender ratio to optimize live matching).
You can always expect Secret RSVP™ events to be hosted in the most trendy and publicly accessible parts of downtown Ottawa. By the way, we’re always on the lookout for new venues and locations, so if you have suggestions or would love to partner with us, we are all ears.
Singles events in Ottawa — Searching for Ottawa speed dating or Ottawa singles events?
Secret RSVP is the live-matched alternative: patented seating, small-group games, and a 3-day post-event chat.
Ottawa Singles Events FAQ
Our events are unique in every city we host in. If your question isn’t answered here, visit our event support FAQ page.
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