TORONTO Singles Events

World’s 1st Live-Matched Game Nights

Choose privately. No awkward intros.

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A patented singles game night with real-time matching—the modern alternative to speed dating

Not speed dating. Not a mixer.

This is a live-matching game night—use your phone to privately tap profiles of people you want to meet. Discreet invites seat you in small, rotating mystery groups, then the games begin.

Small groups. Hosted games. Real connections.

Feels like a great night out—not some awkward dating event.

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A Smarter, More Human Way to Meet IRL

Never make the first move
No cold approaches—your private picks guide the seating.
Designed for connection
A touch of mystery plus social psychology sparks genuine curiosity and natural connection.
Games melt the ice
You’ll laugh before names even stick. Every round keeps the energy easy and real.
Fun night, not forced
Relaxed pacing, welcoming hosts, local vibe. Be yourself.

How Secret RSVP works

Choose Privately

At check-in, browse profiles and tap your picks. Your choices stay private—no cold approaches, no pressure.

Get Matched, Then Play

Based on your private picks, you’re seated into a small, rotating group each round. Discreet phone invites guide you; hosts run the games.

Discover Connections

Laugh. Connect. Repeat. Each round is designed to spark natural conversation, connection, and maybe something more.

Post-Event · 3-Day Private Chat

When the last round ends, a private chat opens for 72 hours so you can follow up and swap info at your pace.

Hear It From Guests

We’ve hosted thousands of singles. Some arrived unsure—and left surprised.
Watch why guests say the night felt easy, human, and actually fun.

What Women Loved

Comfort · No cold approaches · Real chemistry

“perfect for shy people; games broke the ice” [1:16]

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What Men Discovered

Easy conversations · Breaks the ice fast · Better than speed dating

“way better than speed dating“ [0:16]

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Results at a Glance

After hosting thousands of singles, clear patterns show up—more than just “it went well”

95%

Active during the night

Most guests actively updating their private pick list—the selections that seat your small groups each round.

89%

Keep Talking After

Most continue the conversation in the 3-day private chat or swap contact info after the event.

And the Fun Doesn’t Stop

Many events turn into spontaneous after-parties. When the format works, people want more.

Active = checked-in guests who added to their private list during event. Non-adders typically include late arrivals, people who preferred to be seated without picking, didn’t see a fit, or weren’t aware of picks. Based on random past events. Keep talking = sent/received a message in the 3-day chat or reported exchanging contact info post-event (survey).

Trusted by Partners Across North America

Event pros, social curators, and community leaders trust Secret RSVP because it breaks the ice fast and helps guests connect.

Charlotte, NC

The event went great and everyone had so much fun! I got some great feedback!

Amanda Rose

Dating Boutique Inc.

Washington, DC

Secret RSVP™ was an amazing value add to our daters experience. The games were a brilliant way for daters to shake nervous jitters. Secret RSVP™ is exactly what dating deserves!

Maliaka Mealy

DC / United Fray Events Producer

Calgary, AB

Secret RSVP™ is a fantastic way to help break the ice for any medium-large scale social event. Technology, in the right hands, can be used to bring people together and help form relationships in real life, and this concept absolutely does this.

Cory Harasym

Small Group Pastor

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How Your Phone Helps You Connect

Use it during and after the event.

Add Guest

Tap to quietly add someone to your Secret Guest list—your private picks seat you each round.

Guestlist

See everyone you’ve added during the night—one private view.

Invites

You’ll get discreet invites that seat you in small, rotating groups—no cold approaches.

Send Message

After the event, a 3-day private chat opens so you can follow up at your pace.

Patented Technology

Our matching system is patented and built for in-the-moment discovery—no swiping, no guesswork, no cold intros.

Toronto Singles Events

Ages 30 – 45

Date: Friday, January 9, 2026
Time: 7:00 pm
Venue: Firkin @ Yonge
Address: 207 Yonge Street
City: Toronto
Details: Private area, 2nd floor
Ages: 30 - 45
Attire: Smart Casual

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You’ll Feel Right at Home—Even If You Come Solo
Most guests arrive solo (about 80%). From check-in onward, you’re seated in small, rotating mystery groups—so you can ease in without awkward starts or wandering.

Not a Mixer—It’s Smart Matching
Our patented live-matching connects you in real time with people you’re curious about. You choose privately; you’re seated in small, rotating mystery groups.

The Vibe Is Fun, Not Forced
Hosted games and playful themes spark laughs and real conversation—never cringey “icebreakers.”

Designed for Comfort and Safety
Private areas, smaller rounds, and a no-pressure flow. You’re in control and never put on the spot.

Our Hosts Have You Covered
Friendly hosts guide the whole night so it runs smoothly—and you can just enjoy yourself.

More Than a Date Night—It’s a Connection Night
Whether you meet a match, make a friend, or leave with a great story, you’ll meet 40–60 like-minded people in one night.

Good for Your Mental Health
In a lonely era, face-to-face play and conversation can help you feel less isolated, more seen, and genuinely lighter in the moment. We’re not therapy—but the night is designed to support social well-being.

“You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation”
– Plato (Greek philosopher)

What we play

Proprietary games, designed for real connection.
Co-created with game designers and psychology experts and refined over years of live events. Exclusive to Secret RSVP—low-pressure, playful, and tuned for the live-matching experience.

Why it works (the science of play)

Real signals, fast: Play surfaces humor, empathy, and vibe faster than small talk.
Unguarded moments: People are more spontaneous during play—real personality > rehearsed bios.
Shared momentum: Light competition and group wins create instant rapport.

How it runs (live-matching rounds)

Round structure: patented live-matching rounds seat you in a new small group.
Invites: Discreet phone invites guide you to each table—no cold approaches.
Hosts: A friendly MC keeps timing, explains rules in seconds, and ensures everyone’s included.

Inclusive by Design
Loud, quiet, social, or shy—you’re part of the fun without being put on the spot.

Why Guests Love It
“Way better than speed dating. I was laughing, not performing.”
“The games made it easy to just be myself. No pressure.”
“You meet people as they are—not just what they say.”

Themes and games vary by date and city.

Live-Matching Experience
We’ve taken the hard part of singles events out so you don’t have to. Our patented, in-person system seats you with people you choose—privately, in real time. No cold intros, no swiping, no public profiles.

Proprietary Games (built for live-matching)
Co-created with game designers and psychology experts. Three rounds, three different games—playful, low-pressure, tuned for small, rotating groups.

3-Day Private Chat (post-event)
Opens 60 minutes after the event so you can follow up, flirt, or plan a second hang—at your pace.

Fully Hosted, Fully Guided
From welcome to wrap-up, professional hosts keep the flow smooth. You’re supported—not put on the spot.

Fun Extras & Prizes
Light, optional challenges. Show up and lean in—creativity and curiosity might just pay off.

How big are Secret RSVP events?
Typically 40–60+ guests in a fully hosted format—big enough for variety, small enough for real conversation. We pace sales to help keep the room balanced.

What if I don’t choose anyone—or if no one chooses me? Will I still be assigned to a table?
Yes—if you’re checked in and on time, you’ll be seated. Arriving after rounds begin may delay and impact future seating.

Are Secret RSVP events just for extroverts?
No. The format is built for introverts and ambiverts too: small, rotating groups, clear prompts, and hosted flow—so you never have to cold-approach or carry a conversation alone. You control your pace.

I’m not sure I’m ready to put myself out there (I’m open to friends, not just dating).
That’s totally fine. Many guests make new friends. You can use the post-event chat to follow up at your pace—whether that’s a coffee date or new friends for hikes and hangouts.

Will I meet everyone? Is the room 50/50?
No. With small, rotating groups, you won’t meet every guest—and perfect gender balance isn’t guaranteed. We pace sales to keep things even, but chemistry beats quotas. You’ll also have other chances to meet more people during arrivals, between-round mingles, occasional whole-room moments, and after the rounds (many nights roll into casual hangouts). Your 3-day private chat helps you follow up with people you connected with.

Do I have to approach people?
No. You choose privately; we seat you in small, rotating groups—no cold approaches. Hosts run the games so it stays easy.

When can I see who else is attending?
Profiles unlock after check-in at the event. It keeps everything private until everyone’s really there.

Do I need a profile?
Yes. A simple profile is required for check-in, your private picks, discreet invites, and the 3-day private chat.

Can I leave early?
Leaving mid-event disrupts matching for everyone. If an emergency comes up, tell a host before you go so we can check you out and remove you from rotations. If you leave without checking out, your ticket may be forfeited, post-event features (including the 3-day private chat) may be disabled, and we may restrict or deny future bookings to protect the experience for other guests.

What if I need to step out briefly?
Grab a host and we’ll pause your seatings for the next rotation and guide you back in when you’re ready. Please don’t leave mid-round without checking in with us—it throws off the seating for others.

How does messaging work after the event?
About 60 minutes after wrap-up, your 3-day private chat opens so you can follow up at your pace.

Will there be photos or video? Can I opt out?
We sometimes capture photos or short clips for recap/marketing. By attending, you consent unless you tell us otherwise. To opt out, tell the host at check-in or email us and we’ll flag your profile.

Is the venue accessible?
It depends on the venue. We list the venue and address on the event card—please review the venue’s own accessibility details or contact them directly, and message us if you need help confirming specifics.

What ID do I need?
Bring a government-issued photo ID that shows your date of birth (driver’s license, passport, provincial/state ID). The name/age on your profile must match your ID. We can’t accept photos or photocopies.

What if I forget my ID?
We may refuse entry per our Terms. Tickets are non-refundable.

What should I wear?
Smart-casual—what you’d wear to a great lounge. Comfortable and confident is perfect.

What should I bring?
Just two things:

An open mind (curiosity + a favorite drink from the bar = great night)
A fully charged phone (for check-in, private picks, and invites)

Code of conduct?
Be kind. No harassment. We may remove any guest who disrupts the experience or makes others uncomfortable.

Can I just show up at the door?
No—advance booking is required so we can balance the room. Events often sell out—book early.

How do I know my booking went through?
You’ll get an email confirmation right after purchase. Don’t see it? Check spam/junk. Still nothing? Contact us—please don’t buy a second ticket.

What kind of ticket am I buying?
All tickets are Standard entry (general admission). If the event fills, we open a waitlist.

Are tickets refundable?
All sales are final. If Secret RSVP cancels or reschedules, or an event is impacted by last-minute emergencies or weather, we issue an event credit for the ticket price. Credits are valid for 6 months and for non-private events.

How do credits work?
Credits are one-time use and can be applied to one future event, subject to availability. To apply a credit, contact us 14+ days before the date you want. If you miss that rebooked event, the credit isn’t reissued.

Are taxes included?
Taxes are added at checkout based on the event location (provincial/federal taxes in Canada; state/local taxes in the U.S.).

Meet Your Toronto Hosts

Real people run the night. Our hosts are trained in Secret RSVP’s live-matching system, so you never have to cold-approach or figure things out alone.

Samantha

Hello fabulous singles and wonderful guests, I’m Samantha, your enthusiastic host for Secret RSVP™!

Whether you’re looking for a new friend, a potential partner, or just a memorable evening, I’m here to guide you through a night of fun!

As someone who thrives on the magic of language and communication, get ready for an evening where every smile is a word, and every game is a chapter in your story.

Brick

Hola ladies, theydies, and gentleman!

I’m Brick- just like what you’d build a house out of (if we could afford a house, that is).

I’m not just a host for these lovely events, I’m also a comedian – helping you find love with a smile on your face, and laughter in your heart! Or laughter in your…. Stomach? Where do laughs come from?
We love love – and want all of you to have a great time connecting with new people and find that special someone!
We’re happy to have you join us for a night of fun & games, and the potential to win FREE drinks AND win the heart of your perfect match!

Toronto Venues

The type of venue is an important part of our events experience so we tend to select venues best for socializing and activities.

We’re particularly interested in Toronto’s Entertainment District where you might see a lot of our events in. Old Toronto, Queens Park in Yorkville and Little Italy, with their popular restaurants, pubs and fancy lounges, are also great options for Secret RSVP™’s unique singles events.

We often keep the exact locations of our venues private and only reveal that to our registered guests to maintain the privacy of our members.

Singles events in Toronto — Searching for Toronto speed dating or Toronto singles events?

Secret RSVP is the live-matched alternative: patented seating, small-group games, and a 3-day post-event chat.

Toronto Singles Events FAQ

Our events are unique in every city we host in. If your question isn’t answered here, visit our event support FAQ page.

Secret RSVP is a live-matched singles event with small-group games—our patented system seats you with people you choose privately. It’s a modern alternative to speed dating designed to spark real conversation without cold approaches.

No. It’s a live-matched, game-based format. You choose privately on your phone, we seat you in small, rotating groups, and hosts guide three short rounds—so it feels like a fun night out, not traditional speed dating.

Toronto is the New York City of Canada. It’s the central hub for business, tech, entertainment, and culture, making it a hot spot for young professionals like you. Toronto is famous for its diverse population, rich culture, and always-on-the-go vibe.

As a single living in Toronto, you’re part of a vibrant and dynamic city where people from all over the world come to call home. According to the latest Statistics Canada data, Toronto has the highest number of singles in all of Canada, giving you a huge dating pool of professionals to connect with! Singles from top neighborhoods like Little Italy, Queen Street West, Church and Wellesley, Yonge and Eglinton, King Street, and Liberty Village, all come to our events.

Imagine seeing Toronto’s night lights from the top of the CN Tower, having a picnic on the beach at Toronto Island Park, checking out local art at the Art Gallery of Ontario, or feeling the classic romance vibes at Casa Loma. Some of our favorite spots in Toronto also include Niagara Falls, the Toronto Botanical Garden, and the Distillery Historic District – all must-visit locations that make Toronto so unique.

Toronto’s buzzing atmosphere makes it one of the best places to find love. The great news is, Toronto’s dating scene is thriving, with singles eager to get out and meet people IRL after the lockdowns! Forget swiping on dating apps. While hitting up bars, joining Meetup clubs, speed dating, or even dog parks might be options, there’s a new way to meet awesome, fun-loving, and adventurous singles like you!

Toronto is such a perfect fit for our events, and we couldn’t wait to launch here. With its vibrant city life that includes some of the world’s finest restaurants, pubs, and venues, Toronto truly is Canada’s “city that never sleeps.”

Secret RSVP™ events are rich in theme – even down to what we name our tables where attendees meet and interact. This not only creates great conversation starters but also gives our guests a unique story to tell about how they met their special someone. Imagine attending one of Secret RSVP™’s travel-themed events and meeting your special someone at a table named after an exotic place, like the Cayman Islands. You can relive your experience with, “I met her in the Cayman Islands!”

With Toronto’s unique culture and eclectic venues, we have endless options for adding flavor to our event themes. It’s like giving an artist a blank canvas and a diverse palette of colors.

The singles who attend our events are a diverse mix of professions, backgrounds, and personalities, reflecting the diversity that makes Toronto special. We know that Torontonians love trying new things, are adventurous, and enjoy meeting new people. We’ve been impressed with the curiosity and excitement for Secret RSVP™’s new and patented social concept among Toronto’s singles. In today’s dating scene, it’s refreshing to see that singles in Toronto are eager to meet real people and experience real connections.

Toronto is home to many diverse cultures with people from all over the world. This rich ethnic influence is why Toronto boasts such amazing restaurants, bars, and pubs. We’re selective about where we host our events because we aim for venues that offer the perfect blend of a soiree experience while allowing for great conversations in a fun, relaxed, and classy setting. (You need to hear someone to get to know someone!)

At times, we might not reveal our event venues openly on the event page. Only event ticket holders will have access to this exclusive information when their tickets are confirmed upon purchase. This helps prevent party crashers (yes, it has happened before!) and ensures we maintain an even gender ratio to optimize live matching.

You can always expect Secret RSVP™ events to be hosted in the trendiest and most accessible parts of Toronto, including Bloor West Village, Greektown, Kensington, and King Street West. We’re constantly exploring new venues and locations, so if you have suggestions or would love to partner with us, we are all ears.

Secret RSVP™ is designed as a fresh alternative to speed dating. Some have called Secret RSVP™ “online dating in reverse” or “speed dating in groups,” but we like to think of it as the world’s first live-matched events! We’ve taken the best elements of traditional dating methods, ditched the worst parts, and added our own unique twist.Speed dating can be fun for some, but it’s not for everyone—and it’s definitely not our style! Toronto has plenty of speed dating events if that’s your thing. However, if you’re looking for something unique, modern, and way more interesting, Secret RSVP™ is for you. We combine live-matching technology with engaging activities to create an unforgettable experience.

Discover how Secret RSVP™ stands out from online dating, speed dating, and singles mixers in a big way.

Yes, all our dating nights in Toronto are tailored to specific age groups, but we do allow a 1-2 year leeway. If you’re just outside the age range, please let us know your interest by joining our club list for future events that fit your age group. We want to ensure everyone has the best possible experience by connecting with people at a similar life stage.

The best way to stay in the loop about our exciting new plans is to join our Secret RSVP Club list. By signing up, you’ll be the first to know when tickets for our upcoming events become available. We have some amazing new themes and activities in the works, so don’t miss out!

Secret RSVP™ has been featured in several news outlets and online publications, highlighting our innovative concept and positive attendee experiences. Check out our media page to see how we’ve garnered media attention and why our events are the talk of the town. Discover why Secret RSVP™ is the go-to choice for singles looking for authentic and enjoyable connections.

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