World’s 1st

Live-Matched

Singles Events

a Revolutionary Way
to Connect IRL

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Why Does Finding Connection Feel Impossible?

  • Dating Apps
    Endless swiping, shallow conversations, and mismatched expectations.

  • Awkward Speed Dating
    High-pressure “dates” that feel more like interviews than genuine interactions.

  • Real Life
    Cold approaches are intimidating and often lead to awkwardness or rejection.

We get it—it’s Hard. But what if there was a better way?

Experience A Revolutionary Way to Connect IRL

Our breakthrough method combines:

  • Patented Live-Matching Technology for real-time in-person connections.
  • Proven Social Psychology to heighten chemistry.
  • A Relaxed, Fun Atmosphere that sparks genuine, meaningful connections.

What Makes Secret RSVP Different?

  • Live-Matching Technology
    Discreetly choose who catches your eye. Our app instantly matches you with mutual connections in real time—so you don’t have to approach anyone.

  • The Power of Mystery
    Backed by social psychology, our secret-matching process creates anticipation, excitement, and attraction.

  • Play to Connect
    Say goodbye to awkwardness. Fun games spark laughter and help chemistry emerge naturally.

  • Relaxed and Engaging Atmosphere
    Our events feel like a fun night out with friends—no pressure, just possibilities for meaningful connections.

How It Works

1

Choose Secretly

At the event, use your phone to discreetly select who catches your eye.

2

Connect and Play

Our app matches you in real time with those you’re interested in.

3

Discover Connections

Break the ice with fun, proprietary games that spark laughter, connection, and genuine conversation.

Choose Secretly
1

Choose Secretly

  • No Approaching Required
    Use your phone to discreetly select who interests you, and let our app handle the rest.
  • Meet Many Singles
    Medium-to-large-scale events introduce you to a variety of people, all in a relaxed setting.
2

Get Matched

  • Live Secret Matching
    During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups.
  • Dynamic Rounds
    Each round introduces you to new groups and fresh connections.
3

Play & Connect

  • Genuine Chemistry
    Play and engage in activities that help you discover real chemistry.
  • Authentic Connections
    Enjoy a relaxed and fun setting, all while keeping your interests confidential.

The Impact of Our Events

After hosting over 2,000 singles, we’ve learned a few things:

95%
Engagement During Events

Attendees actively connect and update their guest lists throughout the night.

89%
Continued Conversations

Most participants stay engaged after the event, sparking ongoing connections.

Memorable Fun

Many events extend beyond their official end times, often leading to spontaneous after-parties.

What Attendees Say

Over the years we’ve listened to the great feedback from our singles and have continued to improve the Secret RSVP™ experience into what it is today!

WATCH ATTENDEE INTERVIEWS

Partner Cities

Charlotte, NC
The event went great and everyone had so much fun! I got some great feedback!
Amanda Rose
Dating Boutique Inc.
Washington, DC
Secret RSVP™ was an amazing value add to our daters experience. The games were a brilliant way for daters to shake nervous jitters. Secret RSVP™ is exactly what dating deserves!
Maliaka Mealy
DC / United Fray Events Producer
Calgary, AB
Secret RSVP™ is a fantastic way to help break the ice for any medium-large scale social event. Technology, in the right hands, can be used to bring people together and help form relationships in real life, and this concept absolutely does this.
Cory Harasym
Small Group Pastor
become a partner

Use your phone at the event

Add Guest

Add someone at the event to your Secret Guest list
This is used by the live-matching algorithm

Guestlist

See all the attendees you’ve added

Invites

During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups

Send Message

Send a message to someone from the event
NOTE: You can only send messages shortly after the event ends

Patented Technology

Our innovative technology is protected under patent, ensuring a unique and unparalleled experience at every event.

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