Singles Events
World’s 1st Live-Matched Game Nights
Choose privately. No awkward intros.
A patented singles game night with real-time matching—the modern alternative to speed dating
Not speed dating. Not a mixer.
This is a live-matching game night—tap who you’re into, and you’re seated into a small mystery group—then the game begins.
Small groups. Guided games. Real connections.
Feels like a great night out—not some awkward dating event.
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A Smarter, More Human Way to Meet IRL
How Secret RSVP works
1
Choose Privately
At check-in, browse profiles and tap your picks. Your choices stay private—no cold approaches, no pressure.
2
Get Matched, Then Play
Based on your private picks, you’re seated into a small, rotating group each round. Discreet phone invites guide you; hosts run the games.
3
Discover Connections
Laugh. Connect. Repeat. Each round is designed to spark natural conversation, connection, and maybe something more.
Post-Event · 3-Day Private Chat
When the last round ends, a private chat opens for 72 hours so you can follow up and swap info at your pace.
Don’t Take Our Word For It—Take Theirs.
We’ve hosted thousands of curious singles—many of whom walked in skeptical and left surprised.
These are real voices from real guests who laughed, connected, and felt something different.
Watch the clips to hear why Secret RSVP isn’t just better than the apps…
it’s actually fun.
What Women Loved
What Men Discovered
The Results? Real Fun, Real Connection
After hosting thousands of curious singles, we’ve seen a few patterns emerge—and they say a lot more than just “it went well.”
Engaged During the Event
Attendees are actively connecting, updating guest lists, and getting matched in real time all night long.
Keep Talking After
From next-day messages to second dates and full-on relationships—most guests continue the conversation after the night ends.
And the Fun Doesn’t Stop
Many events turn into spontaneous after-parties. When the format works, people want more.
Trusted By Hosts in Cities Across North America
Secret RSVP isn’t just loved by guests—it’s trusted by event pros, social curators, and community leaders who see how powerful this format can be.
Here’s what some of them had to say after hosting our events in their cities:
Charlotte, NC
Washington, DC
Calgary, AB
How Your Phone Helps You Connect
Add Guest
Tap to quietly add someone to your Secret Guest list. Our algorithm uses your picks to guide your experience—all private, all in real time.
Guestlist
See everyone you’ve added during the night, all in one easy view.
Invites
During the event, you’ll receive invites to secretly matched groups
Send Message
After the event, you’ll unlock the option to message anyone you connected with.
NOTE: Messaging is only available for a short time after the event ends.
Patented Technology
Our matching system is patented and built from the ground up for real-life, in-the-moment social discovery—no swiping, no guesswork, no public reveals.
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